Better conversations, one card at a time

2,624 free questions for couples, families and friends. Draw a card, read it out loud, and let the conversation go where it wants.

Choose a deck How to play

33 decks to choose from

Pick a deck based on who you’re with and how deep you want to go. Every card is marked light, medium or deep.

For the two of you

Co80 cards

Couples

For when you want to talk about more than the daily routine

Fd130 cards

First Date

Easy, curious questions for a first or second date, without the awkward pauses

Kp70 cards

Know Your Partner

Guess the other person's answer, hear the real one, then ask a follow-up

In80 cards

Intimacy

Personal questions for couples about closeness and feeling safe together

Sn70 cards

Something New

Questions about the things you haven't tried together yet, big and small

Ht70 cards

Hard Talks

For couples who want to talk about hard things and both feel heard

Family

Fa80 cards

Family

For Sunday dinner, road trips and visits to Grandma and Grandpa

Ki100 cards

Kids

For the dinner table with kids aged 6 to 12

Fe24 cards

Feelings

One feeling and two questions on each card, for kids at home and in class

Fs70 cards

Family Stories

Kids interview parents and grandparents about the family's past

Np70 cards

New Parents

For couples who are expecting or just had their first baby

Gf70 cards

Growing Family

For parents of two or more: siblings, fairness and time for the two of you

Ch80 cards

Childhood

Toys, smells, teachers and summer vacations

Ho100 cards

Holidays

For the holiday table, New Year's Eve, Easter and birthdays

Friends and fun

Fr100 cards

Friends

For your friend group, dinner nights and long car rides

Fn80 cards

Funny

Light questions that get the whole table laughing

Wr120 cards

Would You Rather

Dilemmas with no right answer, for dinner, road trips and game night

Cw100 cards

Coworkers

For team days, coffee breaks and getting to know the new hire

School

El70 cards

Early Elementary

Short, safe questions for ages 6 to 9, read aloud by the teacher

Ue70 cards

Upper Elementary

Class talk for ages 10 to 12: ideas, group work, fairness and being kind online

Ms70 cards

Middle School

For ages 13 to 15: opinions, screens, the future and a class that works together

Hs70 cards

High School

For homeroom, advisory groups and friends in high school

Cl70 cards

College Life

For orientation week, study groups and your new college friends

Scouts

Sc70 cards

Scouts

For the patrol, the campfire and the leaders: trust, courage, nature and friendship

Wb70 cards

Wood Badge

Reflection for scout leaders on Wood Badge, in the leader team and on your own

Deep talks and self-reflection

De80 cards

Deep

Questions about life, love, fear and meaning for long talks

Ph80 cards

Philosophy

Big questions with no answer key, for people who love a good debate

Se100 cards

Self-reflection

Questions to ask yourself, for your journal or a trusted friend

Dr80 cards

Dreams

Big and small dreams, wishes and the things you've always wanted

Fu80 cards

Future

Where you're headed and what you're hoping for

Me80 cards

Memories

The stories from back then, and what they taught you

Gr70 cards

Gratitude

Questions about saying thank you, for couples, families and friends

Gn70 cards

Good News

Share what's going well and celebrate each other's wins, big and small

How it works

Pick a deck for the people you’re with.
Flip a card, read it out loud, and everyone answers.
Ask a follow-up question. The second question is often the best one.
Skip any card you like. Nobody has to explain why.