Christmas Games for the Whole Family: 10 games and 30 cards for the holidays
Christmas has its rituals, but there's often an hour between dessert and presents when everyone is just sitting and waiting. Here are games that kids, parents and grandparents can all play together, plus a stack of cards that brings out the Christmas stories.
Play the 30 cardsThe games
Dice gift swap with stories
4-20 players, 30-45 min, Ages 5+
- Everyone brings a small wrapped gift for a shared pile.
- Take turns rolling a die. Roll a six and you get to take a gift from the pile.
- When the pile is empty, set a timer for five minutes. Keep rolling, and every six lets you steal a gift from someone else.
- When the timer goes off, everyone keeps the gift they're holding.
- At the end, everyone guesses who their gift is from, and why.
Tip: Add a rule: whoever steals a gift has to answer a card from the deck below.
Guess the carol
3-15 players, 15-20 min, Ages 6+
- Split into two teams.
- One player hums a Christmas song without the words, or says three words from the lyrics.
- Their team has 30 seconds to guess the title.
- The team with the most correct guesses picks the song everyone sings together.
Tip: For the little ones: clap the rhythm instead of humming.
Christmas memories around the table
2-20 players, 20 min, All ages
- The youngest person draws the first card.
- Everyone at the table gives a short answer, and the oldest always goes last.
- Ask about the best story before you draw the next card.
Tip: Ask the grandparents what Christmas looked like when they were kids.
Secret Santa all month
4-15 players, All of December, Ages 6+
- Write everyone's name on slips of paper and have each person draw one in secret.
- All through December, you do small, anonymous kind things for the person you drew.
- On Christmas Eve, everyone guesses who their Secret Santa was.
Tip: Make it a rule that the kind things have to be free: a drawing, a helping hand, a note.
Who in the family
4-20 players, 15 min, Ages 7+
- One person reads a pointing card out loud, like "Point at the person who always finds where the presents are hidden."
- On three, everyone points at the same time.
- Whoever gets the most fingers pointed at them tells the story behind it, or passes it on.
Tip: Keep the cards kind. The game is about laughing together, not singling anyone out.
Family year quiz by the tree
3-20 players, 20 min, Ages 8+
- Ahead of time, a grown-up writes 10 questions about the family's year: trips, new habits, funny moments.
- The family answers in teams on a sheet of paper.
- The answers are read out by the tree, and the winning team opens the first present.
Keep the Christmas story going
3-12 players, 15 min, Ages 5+
- One person starts a Christmas story with a single sentence, like "The elf woke up and found the workshop completely empty."
- The next person adds one sentence, and the story goes around the table.
- After three rounds, the story needs an ending.
Tip: Write the story down and read it again next Christmas.
The lucky almond
Everyone at the table, 5 min, All ages
- Borrow a Scandinavian Christmas tradition: hide one whole almond in a big bowl of rice pudding, and serve everyone a portion. Whoever finds the almond in their bowl wins a small prize.
- The winner also draws a task card and does it for the table.
- Keep the tasks small: a song, a compliment, a memory.
Guess who wished for what
4-15 players, 10 min, Ages 7+
- Everyone writes down what they wanted most for Christmas when they were seven.
- Shuffle the slips and read them out one at a time.
- The table guesses whose slip it is, and the owner tells everyone whether the wish came true.
A quiet moment by candlelight
2-20 players, 10 min, All ages
- Turn off the overhead lights and let only the tree and the candles glow.
- Go around the table: everyone shares one thing from the year they're happy about.
- It's fine to pass and just listen.
Tip: A good way to end the evening when the little ones are getting tired.
The cards
- What's your earliest Christmas memory?
- Which Christmas present have you never forgotten, and why?
- What did your home smell like in December when you were a kid?
- Which holiday tradition would you miss most if it disappeared?
- Who in the family was best at keeping a secret about presents?
- What's the funniest thing that's ever happened around a Christmas tree?
- If Santa could give you one thing money can't buy, what would it be?
- Which Christmas song makes you think of someone in particular?
- How did your grandparents celebrate Christmas when they were kids?
- What would you do if it were Christmas all year round?
- Which dish on the holiday table could you happily do without?
- Who here at the table would you like to thank before the year is over?
- When did you stop believing in Santa, and how did you find out?
- What new tradition should we try next Christmas?
- What's the best thing that happened to you this year?
- Challenge:Sing the first verse of your favorite Christmas song and let the rest of the table join in on the chorus.
- Challenge:Tell us about a gift you gave that you were extra proud of.
- Challenge:Give the person on your left a compliment about the year that's ending.
- Challenge:Describe your dream Christmas in three words.
- Challenge:Do your best elf impression and let the others guess what your job is in Santa's workshop.
- Challenge:Pick a song for everyone to sing together before the presents are opened.
- Challenge:Tell a Christmas story from your childhood in one minute or less.
- Challenge:Share a Christmas memory that no one else at the table knows.
- Point:Point at the person who always wraps the prettiest presents.
- Point:Point at the person who always figures out what they got before the paper is off.
- Point:Point at the person who always finds where the presents are hidden.
- Point:Point at the person who sings the loudest at Christmas.
- Point:Point at the person who most wants to open presents early.
- Point:Point at the person who makes the best holiday food.
- Point:Point at the person who's in full Christmas mode all of December.
30 cards.
Questions and answers
Which Christmas games work for both kids and adults?
Games where everyone can answer and nobody has to be the fastest or the strongest. Christmas memories around the table, guess the carol and the dice gift swap work from about age five all the way up to the great-grandparents.
How do you get teenagers to join in?
Let them run something: picking the song, reading the cards out loud or writing the family year quiz. And keep the cards light at first.
Do the games need any prep?
Most need none. The year quiz and Secret Santa take a little planning, and you can start the rest straight from your phone.
Can we play the cards on a phone?
Yes. Tap "Play the cards" and the phone shows one card at a time, so you can pass it around the table.