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How Well Do You Know Your Partner? 70 Questions

You think you know each other, until someone asks how well you really do. Here one of you guesses what the other will say, and then the other tells you how it actually is. It's good for a laugh, and for plenty of new things to ask about.

Good for: Couples who have been together for a year or for decades, and it works just as well between close friends and siblings.

Play 70 cards

Tips for playing

  • Guess first, then hear the answer, then ask one follow-up question.
  • Guessing wrong is fine. That's where you learn something new.
  • Swap roles after every card.

Depth: lightLight questions

Easy to start with. Good for warming up.

  1. Guess: what's my favorite way to unwind right now?
  2. Guess: who would I call first with good news?
  3. Guess: what do I order at a coffee shop?
  4. Guess: which show would I happily watch all over again?
  5. Guess: what's the first thing I do when I get home?
  6. Guess: which season do I like best, and why?
  7. Guess: what dish could I eat every week for the rest of my life?
  8. Guess: what makes me grumpy in the morning?
  9. Guess: which song do I sing along to when no one's listening?
  10. Guess: which city in the world would I most like to live in for a year?
  11. Guess: what's my favorite day of the week?
  12. Guess: what would I buy first if I won the lottery?
  13. Guess: what's my favorite spot at home?
  14. Guess: what would I do on a day off, completely on my own?
  15. Guess: which of my friends have I known the longest?
  16. Guess: what was my favorite subject in school?
  17. Guess: which candy or snack can I never resist?
  18. Guess: what annoys me most in traffic?
  19. Guess: which movie did I last cry at?
  20. Guess: would I pick the mountains or the beach?
  21. Guess: which app do I open the most times a day?
  22. Guess: what's my favorite word?
  23. Guess: what clothes do I feel most comfortable in?
  24. Guess: what did I drink with breakfast today?
  25. Guess: which chore at home do I actually like?
  26. Guess: which chore at home would I most like to get out of?
  27. Guess: which chore from my childhood have I never missed?
  28. Guess: which game would I pick on a rainy day?
  29. Guess: what's the last thing I searched for online?
  30. Guess: which famous person would I love to have dinner with?
  31. Guess: what would I bring to a desert island, besides you?
  32. Guess: what time of day do I have the most energy?
  33. Guess: what's my favorite flower or plant?
  34. Guess: which sound can I not stand?
  35. Guess: what last made me laugh out loud?
  36. Guess: which vacation have I loved the most?
  37. Guess: what would I make for dinner to impress someone?
  38. Guess: which animal do I think is the cutest?

Depth: mediumA bit more personal

For when the conversation is flowing.

  1. Guess: what worries me most these days?
  2. Guess: what do I dream of achieving in the next five years?
  3. Guess: who's the person I look up to most?
  4. Guess: what do I need after a bad day?
  5. Guess: which compliment from you makes me happiest?
  6. Guess: what am I proudest of pulling off this year?
  7. Guess: which of my friends do I miss most right now?
  8. Guess: what stresses me out most at work or school?
  9. Guess: what would I do if money didn't matter?
  10. Guess: which childhood memory do I think about most often?
  11. Guess: what am I most nervous about in the coming month?
  12. Guess: which of my traits would I most like to change?
  13. Guess: how would I most like to be celebrated on my birthday?
  14. Guess: what makes me feel loved by you?
  15. Guess: what decision am I mulling over right now?
  16. Guess: what was the best part of my week?
  17. Guess: what was the hardest part of my week?
  18. Guess: who in my family do I feel closest to?
  19. Guess: what would I like more time for?
  20. Guess: which value matters most to me?
  21. Guess: when do I feel insecure?
  22. Guess: what dream have I had since I was a kid?
  23. Guess: which conversation have I put off for too long?
  24. Guess: what would I change about my daily routine if I could?
  25. Guess: which of our shared memories do I treasure most?
  26. Guess: what am I most grateful for in our relationship?
  27. Guess: what do I wish we did more often?
  28. Guess: when do I feel most like myself?
  29. Guess: what topic could I talk about for hours?
  30. Guess: what advice would I give my fourteen-year-old self?
  31. Guess: what would I do with a whole week and nothing I have to do?
  32. Guess: who in my life do I find it hard to say no to?

70 cards in this deck.